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How to Actually Get Your Life Together
I have overcome many of life’s obstacles. In more than one way, I still am. However, I am of the mindset that while my life is not where I want it to be, I know I’ll be ok. Maybe it’s naive, but I like to have faith that I can have the life I want to live.
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I wasn’t always of this mindset. When you’re in the deep end of depression and undiagnosed autism staying positive is closer to make-believe than a real possibility. Yet, somehow, I have reached a point where I am content, where I feel I actually have my life together. And those few missing pieces are gradually falling into place.
Make no mistake, having this kind of contentment and hope is not something that happens overnight. It has taken me years and many bumps along the way. And don’t get me wrong, I still have bad days, days where hope is nowhere to be found, but I recognize that these days are fleeting. They will pass.
Without further ado, here is how to actually get your life together (from someone who’s mostly figured it out).
Focus on the Present
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